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Thank you for such a thoughtful response. You’re absolutely right to raise the tension between a framework of “infinite debt” and the possibility of forgiveness, healing, and restored relationship. One risk of stressing the inexhaustibility of obligation is precisely what you note: that it can paralyze rather than liberate, crush rather than reconcile.

In my essay, I wasn’t trying to argue that we must demand perpetual retribution or keep wrongs alive forever. Rather, I wanted to point to the way some traditions—especially in theology and literature—recognize that no act of restitution can ever fully undo certain harms. That gap can be experienced as a burden, but also as a call to humility and compassion.

Your reminder about the New Testament is important: Jesus’s teaching about forgiveness (“seventy times seven”) and his rebuke to those eager to cast stones hold open the possibility of grace that exceeds the ledger-book of wrongs. Sophocles too, as you note, gives us a narrative of eventual release: Oedipus’s suffering comes to count as enough. These stories complicate the tragic weight of “infinite debt” by insisting that endurance, repentance, or divine mercy can bring closure.

So perhaps the challenge is how to hold both truths at once:

Some debts can never be “paid off” in any strict sense (we cannot restore the dead, undo historical injustices, or make whole certain ruptures).

Yet human life requires that we find ways to forgive, to release, to live again—even if imperfectly, even if scarred.

That tension—between the inexhaustibility of moral obligation and the necessity of forgiveness—was what I was trying to probe. Your comment helps me see more clearly how easily the balance can tilt too far in one direction, and how vital it is to recall the resources within scripture and tragedy alike that point toward release as well as remembrance.

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But if our debt is infinite, wouldn’t that render any attempt at restitution meaningless? So why bother? And if we applied this same framework to relationships, say, where we demanded that any wrong be addressed by an eternal remembrance of that wrong coupled with the reminder that nothing will ever be enough, where would that leave us? I’m not even sure this is consistent with the New Testament where (and it’s been awhile so please forgive me . . . But maybe not completely) Jesus instructs us to forgive 70 times 7 times. Also, Jesus tells us to lay off the stone throwing already, because after all who do we think we are? Like we’re so great? By demanding infinite retribution for the infinite debt brought on by the infinite harm we are all caught in a crushing spiral. And, while Oedipus Rex does attest to his historic wrongs, in Oedipus at Colonus Sophocles tells us that Oedipus has suffered enough—his debt is repaid.

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